Quote:DUDE1: Hey guys... I've just bought a new Toyota with my girlfriend. It has like X horsepower. And it only takes X gasoline per mile. It has the full equipment. Water cooling, CD-Player, Seat-Heater etc.
DUDE2: Dude that's awesome. What kind of engine does it have ?
DUDE1: It's diesel man ! Runs like a baby.
Quote:GIRL1: My and my boyfriend just got a new car. It's totally great. It has huge windows and i can see the nature in it's full bright.
GIRL2: Oh how sweet.
GIRL1: Yeah.. our old car had these uncomfortable seats. But these seats are so comfortable. Gives me the feeling i can fly!
No doubt you can see the difference between these two chats right. The men doesn't care how he feels when he's driving the car. He cares only whether the car is COOL and AWESOME. But the women relates in her EMOTIONAL INSTINCT and cares if the seats are comfortable, if the air cooling has the right temperature so she feels relaxed and so on. Another case. In my country none of the girls watch Formula 1 or any car racing that exists. What they watch 24/7 are the soap operas that make us men go ill right ? The girl is in trance when she's watching her favorite soap opera. And if you say to her can you give me a blowjob she'll respond with a yes, the house is on fire and she'll say yes ( when i was little i said this to my mum, and she said only OK lol ). Why don't they watch Formula 1 ? Because there are no emotions in it. No emotional content. No dramatic, tragic, love and stuff like that.
You can be the best man on the world and it can happen that she wont go out with you. Because of her feelings. And then when you start to explain to her how great you are, how lovely you are, how nice you are you're just talking logical and it wont make a difference. She decides on her feeling whether she'll go out with you or not. You know the major feelings. I'll summon them up again: attraction, comfort, trust, connection. Without attraction she'll MAYBE go out with you but you'll end as a friend. Without comfort, trust or connection and with way too much attraction you'll end as a jerk or an idiot or an asshole, you name it.
Women RELATE TO EMOTIONS.
So remember that when you're interacting with women YOU HAVE TO BE EMOTIONAL. FORGET LOGIC. GET INTO AN EMOTIONAL STATE OF MIND.
How To Understand Their Actions, Reactions, Moves ?
It's easy to do just that. It's also handy if you're a crazy routine creator. To understand women you just have to ask yourself these questions:
- Why did she say that ? / Why is she telling me that ?
- What does she need ? / What is her need ?
- What has to happen to her to achieve it ?
Confused ? Totally. Don't worry. I'll give you an example.
GIRL: Talks about her pets all the time
What does she need ?
Explanation: She needs someone that will listen to her. She needs someone that'll understand her that she loves animals so much.
GIRL: Tells you how she isn't going out with her friends because they don't invite her.
Why is she saying this ?
Explanation: She's lonely. She wants to go out.
From our last example we're gonna take this a bit further. How to be the best guy she has ever met.
Lula: It's a boring month you know. I haven't been our for a long time now.
( now i put the third question in: What has to happen to her to achieve it ? )
Mofo: It's your lucky day. I'm going to play some pool tonight. You should come with me. I'm not so good at it. I could use a chearleader. ( playfully said )
And that's it. You just had to ask yourself the third question.
She's a Bitch on the Outside. Is She On The Inside Too?
You've probably been shut down by a girl or even slapped by one. And you thought oh my god what a bitch. And you probably thought that she's like that on the INSIDE too ? She's not. I've had a few experiences in my life with total OUTSIDE bitches. I struggled to open her up. But eventually i did. That's why i say this: Women can be anything on the OUTSIDE but on the INSIDE they're just little emotional, insecure girlies.
She'll Make The Step If You Wont
Like dancing. A man has to take the LEAD not the woman. You have to be the leader and the dominant one between you two. If you wont take the LEAD she will. And less likely you'll fail if she takes the LEAD. Because women seek for leadership in other man. I explain it like this. They all had a father right ? And the FATHER always lead things in her life. If he said she can't go out she just couldn't go out. And they started to get used to it. That's why they'll always need a leader in their life. SO BE A LEADER. Always make the first step and always end HER or YOURS step first. You start a kiss and you end a kiss.
Women are gentle beings. They can't defend themselves. Except the Martial-Arts freak girls haha. Women need someone to protect them. Someone they can feel safe around. And again my explanation is the same as above. Their father took care of that safety when they were young. The same goes for you now. They'll seek a part of her father in you. And you'll have to give her that safety. If the girl didn't have a father then she has been connected to her mother a lot. Her mother of course gave her some safety but not all. These girls are mostly shy or are afraid of men. You have to be careful around them and you'll have to build a lot of trust and comfort before they're gonna feel safe around you.
Shit tests indeed. Little test women make. But don't blame them they don't realize they're cruel or rude to you. They're not pissed at you just like that if you piss them off. If you said something bad about them they'll return that to you. But if you're running a normal conversation and they sometimes try to affect, blame, insult you they're just doing tests because things are getting to emotional for her and she starts processing it logical. Tests with which they see if you're vulnerable, insecure and how you react on them. Pass these test smart or in a funny way.
What Men Do Women Want ?
I want to clear one thing again about the MOST TRUE statement of them all. Looks don't matter!. I know this 110%. I've had this belief that looks matter. But through some experiences it started to fade away. Let's make it plain and simple.
What do men see on women first ? Yeah thats right... tits.. ass.. boobs.. nice legs..
But what do women see on men ? No that's wrong.. they see his C H A R A C T E R. That's why you have to convey your C H A R A C T E R I S T I C S in your stories, the way you walk, talk and act.
But you wouldn't want a women if you weren't attracted to her would you ? I wouldn't. You WOULD definitely sleep with a women that has a nice face, tits and boobs. I would. Because we'd be attracted to her. And that's why you have to build ATTRACTION towards a women if you want to proceed any further. And for building ATTRACTION you need these major points I'm going to describe to you.
Simple isn't it ? But now you start flooding me with all these logical questions.. how do i do this.. how do i do that ? Just read on.
Being alpha. Being the dominant male. You have some pre-knowledge of this and you can find chapters about confidence in this book.
The biggest mystery of them all or the EASIEST thing on the world. It's probably the biggest mystery for you right ? If you posses the great skill-set of being funny the women is already yours. You just need to use it right.
If you have a sense of humor it shows to other people that you're not some random serious asshole that has a heart of stone or is afraid to show his bad teeth with his laughter. Or maybe he has a laugh like a sick cat or whatever you name it.
And as soon as a woman is laughing you can ESCALATE. You can sit next to her if you've just approached. You can say let's go there and there. Anything. If you want to CLOSE fast and so on.
Let's get onto HOW CAN I BE FUNNY ? The formula i've figured out and mostly all of the other Players too is simple because it's easy to recognize. It's your playful attitude combined with some strong CONFIDENCE. Dude.. if you're scared like a lil' chick and you call her a dork she'll get pissed. Really pissed i mean it. I've seen it before. You have to be confident and funny at the same time. That's the formula I use. But you have to practice using those funny lines every where you can. I'm gonna give you some examples later but keep in mind that HUMOR equals being funny and confident at the same time. Funny equals to funny lines, being playful.
She:: How are you ?
PIMP:: Actually I'm feeling quite good right now. Some 12 year olds molested me before and i had to disappear.
PIMP:: You sure seem like a molester. I mean REALLY do you guys have an ID or something ? Cuz i'm going to tha police !
See that was pretty easy. You just need to make those silly comments, lines and stories and your good to go. But you have to pull it off PLAYFULLY and with A LOT OF CONFIDENCE.
** Writing a first message to a girl **
Quote:Damn girl would ya stop thinking of my fine sexy ass for a sec ? =) My ass has feelings too it's getting all sore if you don't stop it. ;-P So how are you ?
Quote:Girl i know what ya doing right now. Watching guys in undies on the internet ah ? Why don't you tell me how you are instead of that ? ;-)
Now go out in the world and practice your delivery and your funny lines ! It's REALLY EASY.
Oh my god. I get the creeps as soon as i think of the guys that do the same old boring things with girls. Dude.. girls like to talk you know that ? And do you think they'll like to talk about you if you'll remain a stupid monotone asshole ? A-A not a chance. You have to be a challenge. You have to do just the opposite thing of what she expects you to do.
She: Are u single ?
Little Johnny: No actually I'm a PIMP and I have 5 girls waiting for me at home.
Another thing i get a lot through online messengers is this:
She: With who are you chatting right now ?
Little Johnny: Hm.. gimme 5 minutes I want time to count.
*** after a minute or two you write back ***
Little Johnny: Actually I'm talking only with you ;-P
Little Johnny: ( you see a nice ass going by ) Damn that girls has one hell of an ass. Yours is not that good. But if you love your ass then she can hide. Do you love your ass ?
She: No. I have a fat ass.
Little Johnny: Then i can't even talk to you anymore if you don't love your ass !! ( WALK AWAY AND RETURN IN 5 MINUTES.. just get a drink and return this will get her on a hook )
Little Johnny: So.. did you change your mind ? Do you love your ass now ?
This means being A real C H A L L E N G E
I wont be going all crazy on this term. Being charming is all about emotions. If you can give her all emotions you're charming. But the biggest emotion you can project to her is love, carefulness, kindness. Show her how you can be romantic. Show her every feeling you've ever felt and you've done the job. Show these feelings in STORIES. Hell that's why the stories are for. To convey your character, personality and to INCLUDE as much feelings as you can.